Let’s get something straight from the beginning: sex is not a performance, and your penis is not the star of a one-man show. Yet, many men become fixated on erections, framing any difficulties as “performance problems”—as if sex were a test to pass or fail. That mindset reflects a long-standing (and outdated) idea that men are the sole “deliverers” of sex. It’s time to rewrite that script.

Do you think you’re too old for a robust sex life?  Think again. Having sex should be an important part of your routine

Who says your sex life has to retire when you do?

I conducted a survey of 555 people over 60 in the U.S., asking about their sexual satisfaction