Your new hip is doing great. You’re walking farther, climbing stairs, and feeling more like yourself every day. The pain is easing up, physical therapy is becoming less miserable, and you’re finally starting to believe life exists beyond ice packs and compression socks. Then a thought sneaks into your head: “Okay, but when can I have sex again?”

Talking with your doctor about sex takes some planning and preparation. Below is a guide of things to do before and during the appointment to make the conversation easier and more helpful. Accept This One Crucial Truth: YOU Have to Bring It Up I cannot emphasize this enough: most doctors will not initiate a conversation about sex, especially with older patients.