When you picture a steamy love scene, who comes to mind? Be honest. It's probably not anyone with reading glasses on the nightstand, a heating pad within reach, and a half-finished glass of Sauvignon Blanc on the dresser. Hollywood still behaves as if romance has an expiration date, which is ridiculous, because older love stories have what young ones don't: range, lovers with baggage, hard-won self-knowledge, and the freedom of having stopped caring what anyone thinks.